Resolving Conflict

Introduction: Solomon wrote, “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger” (Prov 15:1).
 
How do you resolve conflict? Is it your way, always? As we mature in Christian growth, our goals ought to be focused on building relationships instead of being right! But due to the flesh and selfishness, it is our nature to look after number #1!! So what are some biblical principles in regards to resolving conflict?
 
Here are a few:
1. Be Patient
2. Be Quick to Hear – listen
3. Be kind and Forgiving
4. Be Sure to extend Grace
5. Be on guard against the real Enemy
6. Be willing to Negotiate
7. Be aware of difficult Seasons of life
8. Be in Prayer
9. Be careful not to Blame
10. Be committed to Obeying the Holy Spirit
11. Be concerned about grieving the Holy Spirit
12. Be diligent not to become bitter
13. Be Loving even if you’ve been done wrong
14. Be focused on honoring Jesus Christ
15. Be sure that we all have Blind spots
 
Conclusion: No matter what age we get – young or old- we will all be dealing with resolving conflict throughout our lifetime. Therefore, it is imperative that we learn from the Word of God how to resolve conflict.
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


A Harlot Changed by a Scarlet

Introduction: The God of the Bible is in the life-changing business! Peter went from the Sandman to the ROCKMAN! Mary Magdalene went from being possessed by seven demons to being possessed by Jesus Christ – the risen Lord!! Thomas went from doubting to shouting!!! Both John & James went from being hot headed to being apostles of love. This devotion will explore a sinful woman who was changed into a saint who was full of faith.
 
1) A Sinful Woman named Rahab! (Josh 2:1) – “And Joshua the son of Nun sent out of Shittim two men to spy secretly, saying, Go view the land, even Jericho. And they went, and came into an harlot’s house, named Rahab, and lodged there.” According to the genealogy of Matthew, Rahab had a baby boy named Boaz. Is it any wonder that he extended GRACE to RUTH? Have you shown grace to others?
 

2) A Sinful Woman named Rahab heard about a Mighty God! (Josh 2:9-11) – “And she said unto the men, I know that the LORD hath given you the land, and that your terror is fallen upon us, and that all the inhabitants of the land faint because of you. For we have heard how the LORD dried up the water of the Red sea for you, when ye came out of Egypt; and what ye did unto the two kings of the Amorites, that were on the other side Jordan, Sihon and Og, whom ye utterly destroyed. And as soon as we had heard these things, our hearts did melt, neither did there remain any more courage in any man, because of you: for the LORD your God, he is God in heaven above, and in earth beneath.”

She had heard about the wonder working power of our Great God! Are you sharing Him with others?

3) A Sinful woman was changed by a Mighty God because of her Faith in Him! (Josh 2:6,18) – “But she had brought them up to the roof of the house, and hid them with the stalks of flax, which she had laid in order upon the roof.”

“Behold, when we come into the land, thou shalt bind this line of scarlet thread in the window which thou didst let us down by: and thou shalt bring thy father, and thy mother, and thy brethren, and all thy father’s household, home unto thee.”

“By faith the harlot Rahab perished not with them that believed not, when she had received the spies with peace” (Heb 11:31).

You see she exercised her faith in the God of the Bible. Have you? Did you notice the scarlet thread?

Conclusion: Regardless of one’s sinful lifestyle, Jesus can change the hardest heart. By simply putting one’s faith and trust in His redeeming blood (symbolized by the scarlet thread), changes will result. He changes our “want to’s.” Have yours been changed?
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese

 

 



A Hiding Place

Introduction: Everybody is looking for a safe and secure shelter. Do you need a refuge? Has life handed you a lemon? Can you find relief? Be blessed by this Bible verse.
 
“Thou art my hiding place; thou shalt preserve me from trouble; thou shalt compass me about with songs of deliverance” (Psalm 32:7).
 
David experienced his God – the God of the Bible – to be a mighty deliverer. He can deliver you!
 
1. The word “hiding place” is סֵתֶר: (say’-ther). It means a covering, or it has to do with a hiding place. It can mean secrecy.
 
2. The word “preserve” is נָצַר (naw-tsar’). This word means to watch, or to guard. It can mean to keep.
 
3. The word “trouble” is צַר (tsar). This word has to do with a narrow, or tight place.
 
Do you get the big picture? It reminds this writer of the turbulent storm raging at the sea shore. While the lightning flashed, the wind blew, and the waves beat against the rocks on the shore line, a little bird was nestled, with its head, underneath a rock.
 
Conclusion: All of this spells a song of deliverance. When our God intervenes we owe it to Him to offer our praise and thanksgiving. Will you stop and do it now?
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


Without Excuse

Introduction: Is man without excuse before a holy God? What about those who have never heard the gospel? What about those who have never read a Bible? This includes those located in secluded jungles with primitive lifestyles. In this devotion, we will explore a biblical passage that seems to address this mysterious situation.
 
Paul, like a prosecuting attorney takes the stand to defend truth. He enumerates God’s righteousness through several witnesses. The first witness is creation. Visible evidence stares right in the face of every human being. One can look around and clearly see the radiant sun, the beaming moon, and the twinkling stars at night. How did they get here? Who put them in their proper place? How can we tell? Is there a confirmation anywhere?
 
Regardless of one’s light, these sources are shining brightly every moment. In addition, both the plant kingdom as well as the animal kingdom point to a Master Designer. Is man his own god? Unfortunately, many have embraced this lie. But instead, the visible things of the creation of the world are witnesses confirming biblical truth.
 
Furthermore, this Creator Designer has strategically inserted a mechanism in every human being which sounds an alarm between right and wrong. Ultimately, the Surgeon will not manipulate the patient but will allow him or her to decide what and who to believe. Their response determines their final destination. Have you made your decision? What is your response?
 
Conclusion: Bottom line: God is just. Jesus Christ has established His order of creation (Col 1:16) so that man is without excuse. The Truth sets us free!
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


A Winning Attitude When You’re Losing

Introduction: “Take the Good, with the Bad, and make the Best”! This was the title of a message that this writer preached a few years ago. Do you have a good attitude even though you are losing? Easier said than done right? Paul demonstrated this as he was inspired to write to the epistle to the Philippians. Even though he was confined to a Praetorian guard 24/7, he still made the Most of his situation.
 
1. First, Good things come out of Bad situations! (Phil 1:12) – “But I would ye should understand, brethren, that the things which happened unto me have fallen out rather unto the furtherance of the gospel.”
 
The gospel was going forward. Jesus Christ was being preached. In fact, Paul recognized that he, at that time, had a listening ear at his disposal. He would have never had the opportunity to speak to these high level Roman guards had he not been incarcerated. Think about it. Can you imagine what it was like to be chained to a “FOOL for CHRIST”?? Many turned and trusted in Jesus!
 
2. Converts at the household of Caesar! (Phil 4:22) – “All the saints salute you, chiefly they that are of Caesar’s household.”
 
Remember the ruthless ruler named Nero who had CHRISTians burned to the stake to light up his garden. These Roman converts probably consisted of high ranking officials, guards, and servants. Basically, a revival broke out! Many heard the unadulterated Word of God from a flaming evangelist who had a real encounter with Jesus Christ – and he couldn’t get over it!! Have you gotten over it?
 
Conclusion: Clearly, Paul had a winning Attitude while others would claim he was losing. But in “heaven’s record book” – He WON!
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


Jerusalem – The Beautiful City of God

Introduction: Why is Jerusalem so significant? What is so special about that place? In this devotion, we will explore the answers to these questions. By the way, don’t forget, God doesn’t forget!
 
1. God chose Jerusalem as His SELECTION! (Psa 132:1,2) – “For the LORD hath chosen Zion; he hath desired it for his habitation. This is my rest for ever: here will I dwell; for I have desired it.”
 
King David was used by the Lord to fulfill His will in establishing Jerusalem as the political, spiritual, and eternal capital of Judah (2Sam 5,6,7). Until this day, Jerusalem is called the center of the earth (Ezek 5:5).
 
2. Today, Jerusalem is under the gun of CONFRONTATION! (Zech 12:2; Psa 83) – “Behold, I will make Jerusalem a cup of trembling unto all the people round about, when they shall be in the siege both against Judah and against Jerusalem.”
 
Why is Israel so hated? Antisemitism is running rampant all over the world. Don’t forget Jesus was a Jew. Why are the Muslims so determined to keep the Temple Mount in Jerusalem under their control? Because even though they do not believe all the Bible, the Islamic faith teaches parts of the Bible. Therefore, there is a power structure in place to see who can control the Temple Mount in Jerusalem.
 
3. Jerusalem is Jesus Christ’s final DESTINATION! (Zech 14:4) – “And his feet shall stand in that day upon the mount of Olives, which is before Jerusalem on the east, and the mount of Olives shall cleave in the midst thereof toward the east and toward the west, and there shall be a very great valley.”
 
Jerusalem will be the location where Christ’s sets up His Millennium KINGDOM! He will rule on His throne in the Temple described in the books of Ezekiel, Revelation and Zechariah. His Kingdom there shall be no end.
 
Conclusion: So what can we do? We should continue to pray for the PEACE of JERUSALEM.
 
“Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee. Peace be within thy walls, and prosperity within thy palaces” (Psa 122:6,7).
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


Perseverance

Introduction: Sometimes we just need to persevere. Being impatient doesn’t work very well. Staying faithful to Jesus Christ’s will and way must be our focus. Yet, admittedly, this is very difficult to do on a consistent basis. Because of setbacks, disappointments, and trials it seems inevitable that we get off track. However, the key to staying on track is perseverance. Every mother, daddy or grandparent understands this challenge. Every husband or wife faces seemingly insurmountable obstacles. As a matter of fact, every Christian has the same dilemma. So how can we overcome our obstacles? Answer…. Perseverance.
 
Listen to God’s Word and then apply it.
 

1. By running in this race with our eyes on Jesus Christ! (Heb 12:1-3) – “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Jesus did not quit! Jesus persevered. Until His last breath on earth He finished faithful as our Redeemer. As we look to Him, He both motivates us and empowers us to persevere. How are you doing?

2. By keeping a good attitude! (Phil 4:8) – “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

You have heard it said, “Our attitude control our altitude”! A negative attitude results in a negative lifestyle; i.e. a quitter.
How is your attitude? Change your thinking. Think right.

3. By not quitting! (Gal 6:9) – “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”

When we over do it we get weary. Stress, pressure, along with cares of this world can overwhelm us and cause us to be incapacitated. You know. Right? Perseverance is the key. In other words, we have to pace ourselves in this very demanding society in order to stay useable. Where are you at?

Conclusion: Do you feel like giving up? Look to Jesus. Trust in Jesus. Keep persevering. We are not home yet!
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


Offenses

Introduction: We can offend others as well as being offended. Here is a brief study on this subject taken from one passage of Scripture. It is a follow up from a previous devotion. 

1. We can offend others! (Luke 17:1,2) – “Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come! It were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he cast into the sea, than that he should offend one of these little ones.”

Can we be an offense and not even know it?

The word “offense” is σκανδαλίζω,(skan-dal-id’-zo): It means to “put a snare (in the way), to cause to stumble, or to give offense. Furthermore, it can have to do with causing someone else to sin. 

Has that happened to you? Perhaps every parent or person for that matter must admit to causing someone else to stumble. However, Jesus Christ stated the seriousness of doing such; i.e. hanging a milestone – heavy rock – around one’s neck and thrown into the sea.

2. We can be offended but make it right! (Luke 17:3,4,5,6) – Yes. Listen to the words of our Lord. 

“Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.”

Don’t forget. Forgiveness is a choice. But remember Jesus forgives us, if we trust Him. 

3. Faith is the key to making it right! (Luke 17:5,6) – “And the apostles said unto the Lord, Increase our faith. And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou planted in the sea; and it should obey you.”

Notice the word “Sycamine tree”. It is συκάμινος, (soo-kam’-ee-nos), which is the mulberry tree, a black mulberry. Jesus said real Faith can pluck it up – from the roots – and thrown into the sea where it dies! 

Conclusion: Offenses happen. But they need to be made right if possible. Jesus can make it right.

Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese

 

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Obedience Brings Blessings

Introduction: Choices. Decisions. Actions. These all have either good or bad consequences. While obedience brings blessings, disobedience brings curses. Scriptural insight reveals this truth in a king named Uzziah.
 
Check it out. Don’t miss it.
 

1. First, notice his FAVOR! (2Chron 26:1-3) – “Then all the people of Judah took Uzziah, who was sixteen years old, and made him king in the room of his father Amaziah.”

At sixteen he was crowned King of Judah…imagine a 16 yr old today being President! Nevertheless, it was so; God favored him.

2. Next see his FOLLOWING! (2Chron 26:4-15) – “And he did that which was right in the sight of the LORD, according to all that his father Amaziah did. And he sought God in the days of Zechariah, who had understanding in the visions of God: and as long as he sought the LORD, God made him to prosper.”

Because Uzziah did right in the sight of the Lord, God blessed him with prosperity. Has our Lord blessed you?

3. Thirdly, watch his FAILURE! (2Chron 26:16-19) – “But when he was strong, his heart was lifted up to his destruction: for he transgressed against the LORD his God, and went into the temple of the LORD to burn incense upon the altar of incense…..”

Prosperity can lead to adversity. When the king was “strong” he took things in his own hands. Here is a warning to every Christian that has been blessed. Choices and decisions need to be handled with much PRAYER and CARE!

4. Finally he’s FORGOTTEN! (2Chron 26:19-23) – “Then Uzziah was wroth, and had a censer in his hand to burn incense: and while he was wroth with the priests, the leprosy even rose up in his forehead before the priests in the house of the LORD, from beside the incense altar…. And Uzziah the king was a leper unto the day of his death, and dwelt in a several house, being a leper; for he was cut off from the house of the LORD.”

Because of his bad choices and poor judgment, king Uzziah suffered immensely. First he was ejected out of the house of God. Next he was stricken with leprosy until the day he died. What a bad way to go! Probably he was remembered by how his life ended instead of his great accomplishments. Sad. How are you determined to finish?

Conclusion: In summary, King Uzziah obeyed his Lord and was blessed; however, a bad decision cost him his FAVOR and FINE LEGACY. This is a sobering message to all who read this. Choose obedience and be blessed.
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese


Anger and Attitude: Two Killers

Introduction: These two are killers! Anger & Attitude. We all battle with both. Perhaps you are in a battle right now. If you do not “nip it in the bud” it will take you down. 
 
Look at one of its victims.
 

The Elder Brother! (Luke 15:28) – “And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him.”

You would think that he would be happy! Why? Because his brother had finally come home! But no, he was mad. This shows he had a bad attitude all along. His motives were greedy. His heart was deceitful. His life was exposed when someone besides himself got some attention.

Application: There are quite a few people sitting in Church every Sunday that do not really care about the salvation or restoration of others. Instead, they are concerned about their own convenience. Self interest is driving them. When others get attention then jealousy raises its ugly head.

This elder brother was religious. Do not forget who Jesus is talking to. He is addressing the religious crowd of His day.

A good gauge to check up on your attitude and anger in the Church is to evaluate if you are humbling yourselves under God’s mighty hand….not just lip service….talking the talk….but walking the walk.

Conclusion: At times, we all get caught in the trap of going through the motions but our heart is really not right. Where are we right now…. self righteous – looking at others faults, or Christ righteous – concerned about all?
 
Love y’all,
Pastor Randy Reese