Building Meaningful Relationships In & Out of the Church

Introduction: Listen to the heartfelt words of the apostle Paul to the beloved Church of Philippi: “Therefore, my brethren dearly beloved and longed for, my joy and crown, so stand fast in the Lord, my dearly beloved. I beseech Euodias, and beseech Syntyche, that they be of the same mind in the Lord.” (Philippians 4:1–2)

Building strong, spiritual relationships in the Church takes work! Here are three key ways to do that.

1. Showing Affection! (Philippians 4:1) – “Therefore, my brethren dearly beloved and longed for, my joy and crown.”

It is obvious that God had put a great love and appreciation in Paul’s heart for the believers in the Philippian Church. With grace, he expresses his emotions and affections to edify the CHRISTians. By the way, he is not “flattering them.” Instead, their love for Jesus Christ and His work had been demonstrated. Their character, passion, and mission-mindedness spoke for itself. Are you mission-minded? Can people see a genuine love for the Lord in your life?
 
2. Speaking Affirmations! (Philippians 4:1) – “Therefore, my brethren dearly beloved and longed for, my joy and crown, so stand fast in the Lord, my dearly beloved.”

“Stand fast” is a strong word. It is the word στήκω, which means to be stationary or to persevere. What a great challenge it is these days to persevere! Although, it is God the Holy Spirit who is able to pour in fresh oil in our lamps! Do you need some fresh oil?
 
3. Sharing Admonitions! (Philippians 4:2) – “I beseech Euodias, and beseech Syntyche, that they be of the same mind in the Lord.”

Evidently, there are two ladies that can’t seem to get along. Truly, this disunity was hindering the work of the Lord. Remember: We can be “right” but be “wrong.” Are you finding yourself at odds with other people in the Church?
 
Conclusion: Once we are forgiven of our sins thru the blood of Jesus Christ and unite with a Church for the purpose of serving our Lord Jesus, then we either fall back or move forward because of our relationships. How about your relationships? Any need mending?
 
Love y’all,
Dr. Randy Reese